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What Do Men In Their 50s Want In A Woman?

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A lot of men of all ages where I live are one or more….overweight, smokers, drug addicts, don’t groom their facial hair….just plain lazy and couldn’t care less. I have met a few intelligent and seemingly nice guys online, but they live far away, even in other countries. Finding a good local man is a lost cause, at least around here, and even when I do find one he has a ton of baggage or he just doesn’t trust enough to try a relationship again. Nobody’s perfect, I get that….but perfection is far from what I am looking for. I am far from desperate, I am not materialistic, and I can hold an intelligent conversation. I am attractive and height/weight proportionate.

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I don’t know what the secret to relationship success is after 50. But I do know, that by this age, we should be much more responsible with the hearts, minds, and souls of the people we interact with. Don’t waste anyone’s time, if you don’t want an exclusive relationship, then be honest so the other person can have a chance to back out. And if they do want to back out, let them, don’t keep chasing them down as though you really want only them. Went on one of these so-called “dating sites” allegedly catering to folks in my age range.

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However, about 5 years ago I discovered with her help a little problem in my family called alcoholism and cleaned up my act many years ago and got sober. Most women lose their libido as well as men approaching 50, sometimes weight issue or health in general. I did not and had an increasing sex drive at 50 and am 56 now.

It’s not a casual thing to me, and I couldn’t go from guy to guy giving my most private self out like it’s candy. That part of me is saved for someone who truly deserves it, someone who’s shown me that they want what I do, a meaningful and exclusive relationship. I’m separated now after 27 years, me mid 50s her late 40s. We had a failure in communication that seemed to start breaking down as the kids were leaving for college. There have been wonderful happy times raising three gorgeous children, 2 in college 1 in mid teens, all seem to be happily adjusted life is good.

I don’t want to be alone either, but I am worn out from trying to form a relationship with a nice man when I meet him. These are not young men…..mid 40’s to mid 50’s. These men tell me how great I am…..special, one in seven million….yada yada yada….. In the next breath either their baggage gets in the way or they don’t want to disappoint me.

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Even then, what we always ran into was the selfishness, or lack of desire to be better than yesterday. Most women start gaining weight, and then want to guilt or shame you for wanting to be fit healthy and be with someone fit and healthy. The reality is, no man wants a woman in her 50’s except a guy who is basically an incapacitated relic whose wife passed away and needs a caretaker.

I looked for comments and reactions to the SixtyandMe article to see if my own gut reaction was off-base. When I read that, my hackles were up. Her research speaks primarily about how men need validation. We must lack that validation gene, but it’s great when we can be admired for who we are and what we’ve done. For us, the brainwashing started when we were young.

I too keep a few extra pounds in check but I know I look good when I leave my house. Chris….you sound like a genuine person also. It is nice to hear, and I appreciate your post. The points you mentioned for a meaningful relationship are points I value very much. Society as a whole has changed, and I’m not so sure that trash tv, online dating, and dirty websites have done us a favor as a whole. I want to meet a woman and have the last first kiss I’ll ever have.

So far that hasn’t worked for me but I’m not giving up. If only for the fact that I know I deserve what I’m looking for. And that doesn’t mean perfection in someone or a man 6ft tall. I would do the same, and I have a lot of love to give the right man if I can find him. On the internet sites, women have, quite frankly, totally unrealistic expectations.

If they “gain” weight you will dump them. Don’t we all want someone like that? It’s important you’re paired with someone who pushes you to succeed and be the very best version of yourself day in and day out.

He didn’t appreciate FIRE as much when he could literally create it in an instant as he did when he had to work at creating it. When you find your someone, you WILL appreciate them more and they will recognize it. I just turned 50 and although I have no problems getting dates , I have been single for a very long time. I find I am too scared of getting hurt. I almost dated a doctor 6 yrs older than myself but thought it likely that he would end up hurting me because he was attractive, had options, and did not want to marry again. When I join dating sites, I talk to men on the phone and most of the time, do not feel enough of a connection to make me want to talk to them again.

About 3 years ago she approach me and said I am so sorry I wasn’t a good wife to you. Maybe she found what she had was a lot better than she realized. Any way this is my opinion a sexual connection with a woman.